The Importance of Equal Amounts of Solitude in a Relationship Solitude in a relationship in equal amounts is an important factor in making a good marriage. Any good relationship must have a certain degree of independence on both sides. If one person believes that the other person must be around for a decision to be made or if one person believes life could not go on without the other person, that person could begin to …showed first 75 words of 750 total…

…showed last 75 words of 750 total…both sides, a very solid and healthy relationship can develop. People can not truly love one another without being self-sufficient. If the solitude is lacking a resentful relationship may follow. Both people are supposed to communicate and let each other know what they need to themselves. If that equal amount of solitude is achieved a healthy, growing relationship will be the outcome and both people will feel comfortable with the other person and also themselves.